{"id":742,"date":"2021-04-13T09:36:49","date_gmt":"2021-04-13T13:36:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/?p=742"},"modified":"2022-08-07T08:30:28","modified_gmt":"2022-08-07T12:30:28","slug":"what-is-an-underachiever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/what-is-an-underachiever\/","title":{"rendered":"What is an Underachiever, and 5 Easy Ways on How to Overcome Being One"},"content":{"rendered":"
Have you ever been told that you\u2019re a smart and talented person — full of potential \u2013 yet performing below expectations?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Do you find yourself knowing that you could do more and be more\u2026 but you\u2019re not sure where to start?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Consider this: what if you\u2019re just an underachiever who needs that little push to start accomplishing things.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n So, what is an underachiever, and how can you overcome it?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n According to the <\/span>Cambridge Dictionary<\/span><\/a>, an underachiever is:<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cA person whose performance is lower than you would expect, based on that person\u2019s ability.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Similarly, the <\/span>Merriam-Webster Dictionar<\/span><\/a>y defines the word underachiever as: <\/span><\/p>\n \u201cone who fails to attain a predicted level of achievement or does not do as well as expected.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Both definitions apply in many situations in life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n For example, a student who is believed to have a high IQ, but does not do well in school, is called an underachiever. The same goes for a talented person who is not reaching their full potential at work or a skilled athlete who performs poorly in sports events.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n All of them may be called \u201cunderachievers.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n Now that you know what an underachiever is, let us explore the different types of underachievers. Read on to learn more:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n [divider width=”full”]<\/p>\n Recommended Reading:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n [divider width=”full”]<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The concept of underachievement has been studied for several decades now, particularly in the field of psychology. In fact, experts have come up with different types of underachievers.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n In the book \u201cThe Psychology of Underachievement: Differential Diagnosis and Differential Treatment\u201d (1988), psychologists<\/span> Harvey Mandel and Sander Marcus <\/span><\/a>discussed six main types of underachievers, with a particular focus on students\/learners:<\/span><\/p>\n As the term suggests, this type of underachiever is simply \u201ccoasting\u201d through life. They are not so concerned about schoolwork or grades and tend to give up easily. The coasting underachiever also exhibits general satisfaction with life and is not too worried about the future.<\/span><\/p>\n The anxious underachiever typically has low confidence, paired with a high level of self-doubt. They get stressed easily and are constantly worried about making mistakes, despite their potential. This type of underachiever also needs regular support and encouragement.<\/span><\/p>\n This kind of underachiever tends to be the hot-tempered type. Underachievers in this category often get in trouble with authority figures. More common among pre-adolescent boys, defiant underachievers often annoy others and usually blame other people for their mistakes.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n The sad\/depressed underachiever has low self-esteem and is generally miserable most of the time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n As students, they lack the energy to focus on their studies. This type of underachiever is often tired, lacking in energy, and appears lethargic. They also find it hard to make decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n As the term implies, this type of underachiever is egoistic, impulsive, and manipulative. These are the kind of people who often seek instant reward or gratification and tend to lie, cheat, or even steal to get what they want.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Wheeler-dealer underachievers usually exhibit an attractive personality.<\/span><\/p>\n You probably guessed it: \u201cidentity search\u201d underachievers are those people who are constantly searching for their self-identity, so much so that they cannot focus on work and their studies.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n The Identity Search Underachiever is also notorious for having intense egotism.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Do you think you are an underachiever?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Aside from the different types mentioned above, there are signs indicating that you may not be accomplishing as much as you could or not living up to your full potential.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Here are several signs of being an underachiever:<\/span><\/p>\n Similar to the \u201ccoasting\u201d underachiever discussed earlier, you are simply getting by.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Sure, you do just enough to pass your subjects in school or maintain a satisfactory performance at work — but that\u2019s it. You are not motivated to do more and be more \u2013 even if you have the potential.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cBare minimum\u201d appears to be your mantra; you are simply doing enough to \u201csurvive.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n You know you have to finish that paper, study for an important test, or focus on a significant project. But you keep putting it off and would rather spend your time doing other things instead.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ll do it tomorrow\u201d is something you may often say. However, tomorrow never really comes, does it?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n By the time you need to submit your work or take that exam — you scramble to finish the things you\u2019re supposed to do. In other words, you end up \u201ccramming.\u201d The result may be okay or satisfactory, but then again, it\u2019s not your best work. You know it could be so much better if you had given it more time.<\/span><\/p>\n Speaking of time, you could be an underachiever if you\u2019re not very good at managing it. You\u2019re not adept in planning or making schedules, either.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n But think about how much you could achieve by improving these skills. For example, making a simple \u201cto-do list\u201d can help as you prepare for school or work each day. You also get the satisfaction of ticking off each task as you finish!<\/span><\/p>\n You\u2019re an underachiever if you make excuses for your faults.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n When you fail a subject or don\u2019t perform well in a task, you always have an excuse. You find it hard to accept responsibility for your own failures and tend to blame the circumstances or other people instead.<\/span><\/p>\n Similar to the \u201cwheeler-dealer\u201d underachiever mentioned earlier, you use your \u201ccharm\u201d to try to get out of work. You often try to pass off work to others, even if it should be your responsibility.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n We\u2019ve discussed the traits and signs — so now, let\u2019s talk about the reasons.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Why are you not reaching your full potential? What are the factors that could have led you to become an underachiever?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Here are some possible reasons:<\/span><\/p>\n Fear of failure<\/span><\/a> hinders you from going out of your comfort zone. You want to reach a goal, but you\u2019re afraid that the next step could lead to your downfall.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n In the same way, success frightens you, too. Success often means added responsibility and accountability, and you\u2019re not sure whether that\u2019s something you can handle. In the end, you end up simply staying where you are —\u00a0 yearning to be something bigger but afraid to move forward.<\/span><\/p>\n Have you ever been depressed or been diagnosed with depression?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Depression usually zaps a person\u2019s energy<\/span><\/a>, rendering them unproductive. If you are taking antidepressant medications, this could further affect your mood since some medications may have certain side effects. In any case, be sure to consult with a medical professional<\/a> if you\u2019d like to address this directly.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Success doesn\u2019t happen overnight. Usually, it takes time and lots of engagement and dedication. It also involves forming good relationships with others — be it at home, in school, or the workplace.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n However, if you are not keen on establishing ties, this could hinder you from achieving success. So, try to see if you have commitment or attachment problems and address them head-on.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n How do other people see you? Have you ever been described as critical, negative, or demanding?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n As mentioned earlier, connecting with people is part of growth. Even if you are extremely good at what you do, it will be <\/span>hard for you to succeed if you don\u2019t get along with others<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Are you easily distracted while studying or working? Do you find it hard to finish even simple tasks?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n If it takes you a long time to accomplish something that could be done quicker, then you need to improve your focus and concentration skills.<\/span><\/p>\n [divider width=”full”]<\/p>\n Recommended Reading:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n [divider width=”full”]<\/p>\n <\/p>\n You may not be aware of it, but your parents \u2013 and how they treated you — may have been a factor in you becoming an underachiever. In particular, they may have influenced you by:<\/span><\/p>\n Maybe your parents expected too much. They wanted you to succeed in school, in sports, in relationships, and in many other areas.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Maybe, they experienced the same thing from their parents (your grandparents), and expect you to do the same. In any case, if your parents were too strict, authoritarian, and hard to please — these may have led you to \u201cgive up\u201d or simply stop trying.<\/span><\/p>\n On the other hand, maybe your parents had low expectations, which is not exactly healthy, either. When a child notices that people expect very little from him, he may respond accordingly and try not to make too much effort.<\/span><\/p>\n Perhaps your parents were too busy and preoccupied with their own concerns and problems that they rarely show interest in your achievements. Again, this may have been a factor in you becoming an underachiever.<\/span><\/p>\n Your parents may have been protective \u2013 but too protective. They may have \u201csheltered\u201d you too much from failure, disappointment, or any other negative life experience.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n As a result, by the time you venture out on your own, you find it hard to face problems and challenges and lack problem-solving skills.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you are a parent yourself, be aware of how your actions and expectations are affecting your children.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Here are some tips on how you can support and encourage your kids:<\/span><\/p>\n Self-esteem is an integral part of one\u2019s personality, especially in children. By being a good example, you can teach your kids how to feel good about themselves. In turn, this will help them in many areas of life, such as studies, careers, and relationships.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Never make the mistake of associating your children\u2019s self-worth with their achievements. If you only support them when they get good grades or do something outstanding, they might think that they always need to achieve something before they can get your attention.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Not all children are the same, and that\u2019s what makes them so special! They will have different personalities, learning abilities, talents, and inclinations. Always be there to support and love them, no matter what!<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n So, you\u2019ve observed the signs, determined the reasons, and confirmed that \u2013 indeed –you\u2019re an underachiever. What\u2019s next? How can you overcome it? Is it possible to stop being an underachiever?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n The answer is yes. You can overcome it by following these tips:<\/span><\/p>\n You have goals, but perhaps they are not feasible or realistic. As a result, no matter how hard you try and how much you\u2019ve achieved, you feel dissatisfied.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Think about it! You may need to readjust your goals and expectations. This way, as you move gradually towards them, you will feel a greater sense of fulfillment and satisfaction every step of the way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Do not attempt to achieve something big all at once. Remember that growth and success take time. Rather than trying to reach a big goal, consider breaking it into smaller ones instead.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Take things one step at a time! As soon as you finish one small goal, take time to congratulate yourself before moving on to the next one.<\/span><\/p>\n Earlier, we discussed that lack of planning is a sign of being an underachiever. Fortunately, anybody can hone this skill.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You can do this by reading books or attending workshops on planning, organizing, and time management. You can also seek advice from friends and colleagues who are good planners and organizers. This way, you can focus on improving these skills.<\/span><\/p>\n This may be easier said than done, but then again \u2013 strive to develop a more positive way of thinking. Get in touch with family and friends who can help you have a brighter outlook in life. And if you are depressed, and don\u2019t know what to do, do not hesitate to seek professional help<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n Big things, small things — everything starts with a dream!<\/span><\/p>\n Dreams give us the desire and motivation to pursue greater things. Do not let problems, setbacks, other people \u2013 and yourself \u2013 stop you from dreaming!<\/span><\/p>\n [divider width=”full”]<\/p>\n Recommended Reading:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n [divider width=”full”]<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Unfortunately, other than the tell-tale signs I shared earlier, there\u2019s no straightforward answer for this. All I can say, that if you feel like you\u2019re an underachiever, you have the power to make a change for the better.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Only time can tell. Only YOU can tell.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Let me know your thoughts in the comments below!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Disclaimer:<\/u><\/p>\n This website contains affiliate links. Meaning, if you click on one of the product links, I will earn a small commission at no cost to you. Thank you for supporting Creativity Mesh.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" What is an underachiever? An underachiever is someone who does not accomplish what they set out to do – despite their intelligence, talent, and ability. But here’s the good news: anybody could overcome underachievement. Here’s how. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":752,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[31,37,17,18,12,35],"post_folder":[],"class_list":["post-742","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-development","tag-explanation","tag-learning","tag-motivation","tag-productivity","tag-psychology","tag-theories","generate-columns","tablet-grid-50","mobile-grid-100","grid-parent","grid-33"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/742","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=742"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/742\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1920,"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/742\/revisions\/1920"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/752"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=742"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=742"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=742"},{"taxonomy":"post_folder","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/creativitymesh.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/post_folder?post=742"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}What is an Underachiever?\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n
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Types of Underachievers<\/b><\/h2>\n
1. The \u201cCoasting\u201d Underachiever<\/b><\/h3>\n
2. The Anxious Underachiever<\/b><\/h3>\n
3. The Defiant Underachiever<\/b><\/h3>\n
4. The Sad\/Depressed Underachiever<\/b><\/h3>\n
5. The \u201cWheeler-Dealer\u201d Underachiever<\/b><\/h3>\n
6. The \u201cIdentity Search\u201d Underachiever<\/b><\/h3>\n
Signs of Underachievement<\/b><\/h2>\n
1. You are just getting by.<\/b><\/h3>\n
2. You procrastinate a lot.<\/b><\/h3>\n
3. You lack planning and time management skills.<\/b><\/h3>\n
4. You\u2019re always making excuses.<\/b><\/h3>\n
5. You often \u201csweet talk\u201d to get out of work.<\/b><\/h3>\n
Top Reasons Why Underachievers ‘Underachieve’<\/b><\/h2>\n
1. You\u2019re afraid of failure, and success, too.<\/b><\/h3>\n
2. You\u2019re depressed.<\/b><\/h3>\n
3. You have commitment problems.<\/b><\/h3>\n
4. You don\u2019t get along with most people.<\/b><\/h3>\n
5. You lack focus.<\/b><\/h3>\n
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Parenting: An External Factor<\/b><\/h2>\n
1. Setting extremely high expectations.<\/b><\/h3>\n
2. Having extremely low expectations.<\/b><\/h3>\n
3. Lacking interest.<\/b><\/h3>\n
4. Being overprotective.<\/b><\/h3>\n
Advice for Parents of Underachievers<\/b><\/h2>\n
1. Teach them how to feel good about themselves.<\/b><\/h3>\n
2. Don\u2019t equate self-worth with achievement.<\/b><\/h3>\n
3. Love them for who they are.<\/b><\/h3>\n
How to Overcome Underachievement<\/b><\/h2>\n
1. Set realistic goals.<\/b><\/h3>\n
2. Break big goals into smaller ones.<\/b><\/h3>\n
3. Improve your planning skills.<\/b><\/h3>\n
4. Be more positive.<\/b><\/h3>\n
5. Don\u2019t stop dreaming.<\/b><\/h3>\n
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What is an underachiever, really? Are you indeed one?\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n
Do you know somebody who has the potential to be great but keeps underachieving?\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n